1055 Silver Lake Road, Cary, IL 60013
Tom & Holly Z
Child of resident/client
A Wonderful & Caring Place
Our mom/MIL has lived at Three Oaks for over a year and we can’t say enough about how wonderful it is. The staff is absolutely amazing, the facility is so clean and the food is great! They have many activities as well. It is really the warmth and family feeling that make this place such a success. We would highly recommend!
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At Three Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care, seniors experience a community that fosters their unique abilities and preferences. Located in Cary, Illinois, the community is near bars and restaurants, a rock wall climbing gym, and more. Three Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care also has a pet-friendly policy for assisted living, allowing these residents to bring their furry friends to their new home.
The assisted living and memory care apartments are available to help each resident find their ideal home. Apartment maintenance, housekeeping and linen services, and transparent pricing allow seniors to fully enjoy their new lifestyle. Three Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care also has a restaurant where seniors experience revolutionary dining with regional produce. The community even has a wellness program that includes fitness programs hosted by physical therapists, helping residents maintain their physical health.
Socializing with other residents and taking advantage of the desirable amenities are among some of the ways that seniors can enhance their retirement experience. Seniors can find their favorite book in the library, relax in the sky lounge, and pamper themselves in the salon. Daily activities are another great way to take advantage of all that Three Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care has...
Three Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care
Total monthly costs depend on room type, select services, and the level of care needed
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A Place for Mom has scored Three Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care with 9.4 out of 10 using our proprietary review score based on 10 reviews in the last 2 years. Over all time, Three Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care has 71 reviews with an average "overall experience" of 4.1 out of 5.
Tom & Holly Z
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
October 3, 2025
Our mom/MIL has lived at Three Oaks for over a year and we can’t say enough about how wonderful it is. The staff is absolutely amazing, the facility is so clean and the food is great! They have many activities as well. It is really the warmth and family feeling that make this place such a success. We would highly recommend!
Lisa
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
September 29, 2025
Overall, I was very happy with the Three Oaks facility. The staff was lovely and I thought it was very clean and well taken care of. My only complaint is that they do not meet adequate staffing requirements per person. Many times the ladies only had two people on the floor for a shift. three is the required minimum for the amount of people in that section. I did discuss this with the administrative staff and they tried to say that it only happened when people called in sick. But I was told by staff that there are people that they can call in that are on call that can fill-in in situations like this. It's not safe for the residence and does not meet the level of care they advertise.
Eric H
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
September 28, 2025
When we were looking for a place for mom to live after dad had passed away and she could no longer stay at home, we looked at several facilities. What stood out to us about Three Oaks was its location, its facilities, the overall staff and the amenities. Mom moved into an 1 bed apartment in [date removed] and she loves the place. She has made numerous friends, participated in many activities and gotten the safety and support that she both deserves and needs. It is on a nice campus and easily accessible. Mom has made different friends and social contacts and has told me repeatedly that she feels like she is at home and is glad to be there. The staff is friendly and looks after her well and she is able to come and go as needed with family or other friends. She has a beautiful apartment overlooking the back garden/patio area which provides a sense of peace and calm as well. We are very glad she is here and is happy.
Pam Plyler
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
September 26, 2025
The team here at 3 Oaks is amazing. They care deeply about my mom and take such great care of her. They always have a smile and are welcoming from the moment you come in the front door. The nursing team are experts and provide excellent care. The food is good and the dining staff are so helpful. They have a lot of different entertainment options including outings and Friday afternoon entertainment which is special. I highly recommend them as it's great care and peace of mind for our family!!
Sarah Y
Memory CareFamily/friend
July 17, 2025
Facility is beautiful and clean, staff is caring and friendly, food seems great and we love the Friday happy hours. The communication to families could be improved. I would like to see a family portal where we could see medical and care notes.
LC
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
June 25, 2025
Facility is clean and all staff members are very nice. They have happy hour every Friday with a different entertainer. Residents love it and sing along. Guests are welcomed. Would recommend. The residents always leave with a Smile on their face after the weekly happy hour with entertainment
William W
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
January 26, 2025
To a person the staff at Three Oaks put our mother’s mind and our minds at ease. We cannot imagine finding a better place for her to spend her final year. In particular the wonderful staff displayed flexibility and generosity of spirit as we navigated moving between hospitalizations, rehab centers and back, several times.
Bill L
Assisted LivingResident/client
November 19, 2024
COME! ALL WHO ARE INTERESTED IN GOOD LIVING! Do you want or need a place to live? Come to Three Oaks Assisted Living in Cary. Do you want a nice apartment to live in? Come to Three Oaks Assisted Living in Cary. Do you need assistance of any kind? Come to Three Oaks Assisted Living in Cary. Do you want to meet friendly people? Come to Three Oaks Assisted Living in Cary. Do you want meals served to you? Come to Three Oaks Assisted Living in Cary. Do you like movies to go at your leisure? Come to Three Oaks Assisted Living in Cary. Do you like a fitness center? Come to Three Oaks Assisted Living in Cary. Do you like having your hair done? There is a salon! Come to Three Oaks Assisted Living? Do you like live Entertainment of different sorts? Come to Three Oaks Assisted Living in Cary. “There is no place, Like this place, Near this place, This will be THE PLACE.”
MO
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
November 11, 2024
The staff was very helpful in getting my father-in-law in there very quickly. The care staff we're very friendly and kind, but I did not like how that they kept all of the memory care people in one room to watch tv most of the day. Then they reevaluated my father-in-law after 30 days and said he was at their top level and he was not able to do anything for himself resulting in a higher charge. we had taken them him home every once in a while and he might've been slow, but he was able to do almost everything for himself with direction.
Rob S
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
October 31, 2024
Three Oaks has been great for my dad! This facility has a wonderful staff. Everyone we dealt with was very nice and we feel truly cares for my dad. It's clean and well run. I cannot recommend it highly enough.
Anonymous
Memory CareFamily/friend
October 1, 2024
My loved one was moved after she had a fall there and we where told that she could not return with out rehab but her memory was to far gone for her to take direction so they shouldn't allow her back the stole [fee removed] from us and [name removed] the person in charge over there refuses to talk to us will duck and hide when we show up and will have other staff members there call us on her behalf.
Anonymous
Memory CareFamily/friend
July 24, 2024
The 4 for activities is not because of what they offer. The activities are great but my Mom doesn't really participate and I wish they would try harder to get her to participate. Based on the experience we have had, we would recommend the Three Oaks Assisted Living community to other families.
Anonymous
Memory CareFamily/friend
July 24, 2024
Rated as a 4 for the quality of care in the memory care section. Staffing was short to give enough care needed for all residents. I was glad to be there mostly every day to help out, and witnessed the shortage. But I would rate 5 in all other categories. The team does try very hard to keep up and create a great life for the seniors, with activities, entertainment, friendliness and food choices.
Anonymous
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
March 28, 2024
Three Oaks took excellent care of my parents. They were very kind to them and to our family. The location was perfect for us and the doctor on staff was from my parent's regular office. [name removed] was excellent! The caregivers were wonderful. Food Was very good too. Everything was very clean. Communication was excellent as well.
KMR
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
January 19, 2024
I would recommend. The staff is helpful and nice. It is close by and nice place
Kim Z
Memory CareFamily/friend
December 20, 2023
We recently had to make the tough and emotional decision to move our 85 year old mother into memory care. My siblings and I struggled with this decision and finding Three Oaks and seeing how Mom has settled in we know we made the right choice. We spoke to about a dozen places and looked at several of them in our area that seemed to check all the boxes. But Three Oaks stood out for us as the most friendly and suitable place for Mom. We especially liked the smaller memory care unit with a more homey feel. After move in we know we have made the right choice. The care givers are attentive and communicate with us so well and all of the staff have been great with Mom. Mom is happy and her clarity now that she has settled in has improved. We couldn't be more happy with our decision.
Mike
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
October 3, 2023
Don't click on contract or you may be forced to pay $[removed] without ever stepping into the building. That's wrong, but it happened! Give some customer support when not asking for a check. More info. Stop being a robot.Worst experience I ever had, because they took mom's money but refused her entry! Then wanted another month's rent because of contract.
Sharon B
Memory CareFamily/friend
June 7, 2023
My 93 year old father moved into Three Oaks ten months ago. I have been very pleased with the staff and care he has been given on a daily basis. He loves to sit outside and be with nature when possible and really enjoys the garden setting and landscaping that is there. I can see the joy on his face when everyone greets him by his first name as we walk through the building. I’ve even heard him say at times when he sits back in his recliner that he’s “ Happy To Be Home”! A validation to my choice on senior living and care for him.
Susan
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
June 7, 2023
Finding a caring, safe environment for my mother was a challenge, and I am happy to say I am very pleased with Three Oaks. Response to any concerns has been excellent, with priority given to open communication with family and residents (through Town Hall meetings). Mom enjoys the many activities available, and occasionally, we enjoy social events with her. After nearly two years of Mom residing at Three Oaks, we have seen not only maintenance, but improvement in facilities, food, and activity offerings. The smiles I see on the faces of my mother, the residents, the caregivers, and the staff tell the real story!
MO
Assisted LivingFamily/friend
May 5, 2023
We picked this community because, it was close to our house and they had availability when we needed it. They were very nice and accommodating when we moved my father in law in there. We changed our opinion after he was there a few months and moved him to another facility. I would not recommend to others.
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