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The Stonehaven

10802 E 81st St, Tulsa, OK 74133

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8.6
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36 reviews
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8.6
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36 reviews
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Child of resident/client

5.0 out of 5 stars

Wonderful Community

Activities are amazing! They have something every hour during the day and monthly visits from Tulsa Opera, weekly music groups, as well as therapy dog visits, painting classes and a walking club. EVERYONE we have met staff wise is friendly and service oriented. Their medical staff is proactive and any time we've had a question about anything, they have responded immediately. I highly recommend Stonehaven!

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The Stonehaven

At The Stonehaven, we offer a variety of amenities for residents. Residents can enjoy regular off-site adventures and excursions. Cats and dogs are allowed in private quarters. The residence is conveniently located near accessible public transportation. We offer free wi-fi. All meals are provided to residents. We love to accommodate visiting guests, meals included. Dining includes restaurant-style dining and room service. We offer meal services such as vegetarian food and low/no sodium options. The life Enrichment calendar includes Wii Sports Bowling for bowling enthusiasts. We offer Dakim BrainFitness, a clinically-proven brain-training program to help their residents improve and preserve mental functioning. We have specially curated on-site activities that stimulate both mental and physical well-being. Outdoor common areas are designed with accessibility, flow, and movement for residents in mind. Indoor common areas are quiet and a nice place to enjoy the company of fellow residents or just relax. Residents have access to our communal spaces including a fully-stocked arts and crafts center, a bistro, a library complete with a diverse selection of titles, and a movie room.

The Stonehaven has 1 and 2-bedroom units for potential residents seeking a roommate, studio units, and companion units for those residents who would like or...

Senior living options offered

  • Assisted Living
  • Memory Care

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for The Stonehaven

8.6 out of 10
Review Score36 reviewsWrite a review
Overall Experience
4.4
Cleanliness
4.7
Friendliness
4.6
Care Services
4.3
Staff
4.5
Meals & Dining
4.4
Activities
4.6
Value for Cost
4.3

A Place for Mom has scored The Stonehaven with 8.6 out of 10 using our proprietary review score based on 3 reviews in the last 2 years. Over all time, The Stonehaven has 36 reviews with an average "overall experience" of 4.4 out of 5.

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Last Updated: 7/15/25

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Anonymous

Memory Care

Family/friend

July 15, 2025

5.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review
Cleanliness
4.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
4.0
Care Services
4.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
4.0

Wonderful Community

Activities are amazing! They have something every hour during the day and monthly visits from Tulsa Opera, weekly music groups, as well as therapy dog visits, painting classes and a walking club. EVERYONE we have met staff wise is friendly and service oriented. Their medical staff is proactive and any time we've had a question about anything, they have responded immediately. I highly recommend Stonehaven!

Heather A

Memory Care

Family/friend

April 15, 2025

1.0 out of 5 stars
Cleanliness
2.0
Friendliness
2.0
Value for Cost
1.0
Care Services
1.0
Activities
1.0
Staff
1.0
Meals & Dining
2.0

Don’t do it!

I placed my mother in Stonehaven (which was the Linden) in December of 2020- during Covid. This is something no one ever wants to do. Things started out well. My mother wasn’t completely incapable of understanding things at that time and her needs were being met. Fast forward to 2025- this place is now owned by Legends and the turnover is insane. In the beginning I used to have zero issues with contacting someone about Mom. In the end, I wouldn’t ever get calls back. Mom’s clothes would go missing. Bedding set completely disappeared. Silly little things. I would receive phone calls on a regular basis to come in and sign a care plan, etc. I was always very responsive to their phone calls. Mom went on hospice - thankfully and at that point, they pretty much depended on her hospice provider to do her car. They no longer brushed her teeth. Her hair was only done on the days that [name removed] and [name removed] would come out.1000 characters not enough

Anonymous

Assisted Living

Family/friend

November 7, 2024

4.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review

Super friendly staff

Within the first few minutes of us walking in the door, we both looked at each other and said "this is it!" Everybody was super friendly, employees and residents, it didn't smell, the kitchen was good about my mom's gluten intolerance, great activities director and activities! My husband and I have already told our sons to put us there when we need assisted living.

Nanette B

Assisted Living

Family/friend

September 16, 2024

5.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
5.0
Care Services
5.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
5.0

Wonderful alternative to home living.

All 5 stars! They truly become family. We chose The Stonehaven initially because of the size of the facility. Big enough to offer many different benefits but small enough to feel homey.

KR

Assisted Living

Family/friend

July 17, 2024

4.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
4.0
Care Services
4.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
4.0
Meals & Dining
5.0

Review for The Stonehaven

I would say it's a beautiful facility, delicious food, fun activities, nice residents. My only criticism is with the night time med aides, who are impatient and not very compassionate. Daytime nurse and aides are great and good to keep the family informed. Yes, I've recommended to others.

Anonymous

Assisted Living

Resident/client

May 3, 2024

5.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
5.0
Care Services
5.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
5.0

Recommended

I am currently a resident at The Stonehaven and everything about my experience here has been great so far. The cleanliness and friendliness are great. The staff, care services, meals and activities are also great. Based on my experience, I would recommend The Stonehaven to others, especially for their Memory Care.

Anonymous

Assisted Living

Family/friend

February 6, 2024

5.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
5.0
Care Services
5.0
Activities
4.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
5.0

Beautiful, clean, well kept senior community

We chose The Stonehaven over others we saw because mother liked the look and the sales rep and thought she would like it there. It was a clean welcoming atmosphere. Residents and rooms always clean and neat.

Nanette

Assisted Living

Family/friend

October 10, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
5.0
Care Services
5.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
5.0

A wonderful place for our loved ones.

What we like the most about The Stonehaven community is that every one is extremely nice and helpful. They are in excellent hands at Stonehaven. The memory center has changed my Mother-in-laws life. She is in the memory center and is flourishing.

Anonymous

Assisted Living

Toured community

September 26, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review

Tour of The Stonehaven

We took a tour of The Stonehaven during our search for an Assisted Living facility for our loved one. This facility was extremely nice! It's like a 5 star hotel. However, the rooms seemed small for the price. The facility didn't feel like the right place for my loved one.

Susan S

Assisted Living

Family/friend

August 17, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
5.0
Care Services
5.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
5.0

A great place to live

The charm of Stonehaven is immediately seen when you first walk in the front doors. Fireplace with seating around them, balconies on the 2nd floor, a 30 ft window, decorations for the season, and a friendly front desk person to help you. All the staff, without exception is friendly, efficient, and professional. A schedule is made up and given to each resident at the beg. of each week so they can plan ahead. A large dining area provides great food, with other options given when desired or needed. As the spouse of a resident, I find peace of mind in the excellence of care provided. The best thing for me is that my loved one has not asked to leave. He has so much offered to him which is tailored to himself. I am so blessed by knowing he is safe and his needs are being met in such a wonderful environment.

Betty G

Assisted Living

Resident/client

August 15, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Care Services
5.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
4.0

I love my new home!

The Stonehaven is a clean, well-maintained and beautiful place to call home. But even more important to me are the care staff and management. My caretakers are kind as well as skilled. Management is approachable, listens to my needs and takes action. I feel my opinions matter. I enjoy making new friends. The activities I participate in are fun and make it easy to meet people. Making the decision to sell my home wasn't easy, but I made the right decision. I love my new home!

Carla

Memory Care

Family/friend

August 14, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
5.0
Care Services
5.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
5.0

We love Stonehaven!

Stonehaven is a beautiful, clean and welcoming community with extremely friendly and helpful staff members. We have loved ones in both assisted living and in memory care. All of them are well cared for, happy, and thriving. Everything from our first tour and contract signing to move-in day and visits with family have been positive experiences.

Grateful

Assisted Living

Family/friend

August 12, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
5.0
Care Services
4.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
5.0

Best in the Tulsa area

After extensive research and visits to the top rated assisted living facilities in Tulsa, my daughters & I knew this would be the best place for my 96 year old mother. We have only been more impressed since she moved in. From sales & management, front desk, transportation, kitchen & dining, activities & fitness, to housekeeping & maintenance, they have all been the very best, and my mother is so happy & comfortable in her new home with so many wonderful new friends! We all highly recommend it.

Lew Y

Assisted Living

Resident/client

August 11, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
5.0
Care Services
5.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
5.0

Entering "The Linden" assisted living comunity

Upon arriving at "The Linden" (Since Renamed "The Stomehaven") I found a bright and cheery atmosphere filled with happy people that quickly became my friends. The caretakers are quick to respond to any needs that arise. I'm glad I'm here.

Nanette Bennett

Memory Care

Family/friend

August 11, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
5.0
Value for Cost
5.0
Care Services
5.0
Activities
5.0
Staff
5.0
Meals & Dining
5.0

Success!! for our parents!

Everyone has been so kind and caring during this difficult transition. We are so impressed with the entire place. Having to split Mom and Dad (one in memory care) has been difficult to say the least. However; it was a seamless experience. My mom in memory care is thriving within one week. I haven’t seen her this happy in years.

CDW74361

Memory Care

Toured community

June 15, 2023

4.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review

My Tour Experience at The Linden at Stonehaven Square

The tour was nice, but after being at another community and so disappointed in what happened to us that it caused us to have doubts by the beauty instead of the care.

Anonymous

Assisted Living

Family/friend

May 18, 2023

4.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review
Cleanliness
5.0
Friendliness
4.0
Value for Cost
3.0
Care Services
4.0
Activities
2.0
Staff
4.0
Meals & Dining
2.0

Linden Review

Food is not great and activities seem redundant.... They need a plan of action to incorporate new residents during their first few weeks. Have all staff and residents wear a name tag or lanyard. Another suggestion, update landscaping, get rid of dead bushes, plant new bushes, flowers, ground cover and mulch in front sides and in back.

Anonymous

Assisted Living

Toured community

May 11, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review

Excellent facility/tour

I toured The Linden at Stonehaven Square during my search for Assisted Living Care for my loved one. This facility was excellent, from what I saw. I was impressed! Also, my tour guide was very professional.

anonymous

Memory Care

Family/friend

November 8, 2022

1.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review
Cleanliness
3.0
Friendliness
2.0
Value for Cost
1.0
Care Services
1.0
Activities
4.0
Staff
2.0
Meals & Dining
4.0

our families experience

On the memory care side they really need to make improvements from top to bottom - especially regarding their staff team, that has become a major issue. We had issues that were never explained to us, they do not allow advanced care which is significant - anything that has to do with advanced care they are very resistant. They do not offer physical therapy like they say they do and they do not allow or assist with any lifts. It has not met expectations.

Anonymous

Assisted Living

Toured community

November 2, 2022

4.0 out of 5 stars
Verified Review

I toured this community and it was good! It was very clean and staff was friendly.

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